I like ginmar's take on it: "nice guys" are not allowed to self-define. ;)
And that's all I have to say on this matter, because the last time I was in this conversation, a few days later someone killed himself, and it's made me kind of shy of discussing what can be a terribly painful topic with people I don't know well over the internet.
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Date: 2005-07-07 06:38 am (UTC)And that's all I have to say on this matter, because the last time I was in this conversation, a few days later someone killed himself, and it's made me kind of shy of discussing what can be a terribly painful topic with people I don't know well over the internet.