Part of being "nice" was that he was afraid to express an opinion or tell me his feelings.
Oh goodness, you hit the nail on the head there. I went out with a terribly *nice* boy once who (in between telling me how *perfect* (1) I was -- this one a FIRST DATE -- wouldn't stand up for any opinion on anything without me stating one first, which, of course, he'd then agree with). Ack.
(1) And I, as a rule, don't want to be involved with anyone who thinks I'm "perfect" as clearly they're blind as a bat and near-psychotically deluded. ;-)
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Date: 2005-07-07 05:01 pm (UTC)Oh goodness, you hit the nail on the head there. I went out with a terribly *nice* boy once who (in between telling me how *perfect* (1) I was -- this one a FIRST DATE -- wouldn't stand up for any opinion on anything without me stating one first, which, of course, he'd then agree with). Ack.
(1) And I, as a rule, don't want to be involved with anyone who thinks I'm "perfect" as clearly they're blind as a bat and near-psychotically deluded. ;-)