I don't buy into the "evil oppressor" idea, and I would agree there are many Nice Guys (tm) that do, which leads to them giving females a wide berth and probably not selling themselves as well as they could.
However...
Recent discussions I've had both on-line and real life have made me aware how much boundaries get crossed, and I for one have been erring on the side of caution. Without placing blame, it's very easy for situations to get uncomfortable, and if you want to be friends first and get laid second, then this is something you really have to think about.
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timeasmymeasure
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Date: 2005-07-07 09:27 pm (UTC)However...
Recent discussions I've had both on-line and real life have made me aware how much boundaries get crossed, and I for one have been erring on the side of caution. Without placing blame, it's very easy for situations to get uncomfortable, and if you want to be friends first and get laid second, then this is something you really have to think about.