I think thats cultural too, as in how much are you from a "it takes a villiage culture" versus, "people should mind their own business culture." In the latter it is only your inner circle that can call you on your shit, in the former complete strangers will comment and its considered being in good relationship with the folks around you (and if they Don't comment its a sign that they really don't think your worth the effort).
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Date: 2005-08-24 10:07 pm (UTC)